Applying for jobs can be stressful at the best of times, whether you wish to disclose or not is completely your choice. If you do wish to disclose you may choose to do it at application / interview stage / when you have been offered the post or after you start your employment.
- Disclosure is a personal decision for you to make
- Your unique experience has allowed you to develop valuable skills, which you can use to your advantage
- Disclosure involves taking risks and displaying leadership
- You’re not legally required to disclose your circumstances to an employer, unless there’s a ‘genuine occupational requirement’ (GOR) related to the job. Learn more about circumstances when being treated differently due to sexual orientation is lawful
- It’s good to weigh up the pros and cons of disclosure to your employer/potential employer. Your individual circumstances will influence these greatly
- It is normal to feel some level of apprehension around disclosing your gender identity or sexuality at work, especially if you have had bad experiences before – that doesn’t mean that it is unsafe, it is important to research the employer and build a full picture
Considering Disclosing
You may need to consider your personal experiences to date and how comfortable you feel with yourself as this may impact on your decision whether or not to disclose.
Whether you disclose at the application, interview stage or at all, keep in mind the following:
- Research the organisation’s commitment to recruiting a diverse workforce. Even if they’ve stated a commitment to diversity they may still need some educating on your personal situation and the impact, if any, that it may have on your work
- If you wish to, you can talk about how your experiences have had a positive impact on your life and your potential as an employee in interviews
- If you are a trans person and are in the process of transitioning you will need to be ready to work with the employer to assist your smooth integration into the workforce. Co-operative approaches to disclosing to colleagues within the organisation work well. This may be particularly appropriate if you are transitioning within a workplace you are already employed in
- Know the relevant legislation and be ready to remind the employer of their obligations to you if needed. They may even welcome the insight you are able to provide on accommodating you into the workforce.
Disclosure is a personal decision for you to make.
Disclosing at application stage
If you have experience working in the LGBTQI+ community, you may choose to include this on your CV. Maybe you volunteered for an LGBTQI+ organisation at college or at events, perhaps you wrote some LGBTQI+ themed articles for a website. This is a chance to show that this experience enhanced your skill set. Maybe you learned a significant amount about managing people, organising events or contributing to the LGBTQI+ community.
In addition, there are many skills you have developed and qualities you have shown particular to your own experiences. You may have faced some big hurdles in your life that you could use as examples of your strengths and your capabilities. Positive selling points you could use to market yourself as a strong, adaptable individual may include:
- an ability to overcome obstacles
- an ability to persevere against adversity
- highly developed communication and negotiation skills
- the confidence to make difficult decisions
- self-organisation skills
- an innovative and constructive approach to problem solving
- leadership skills
- ability to influence people and build relationships
If you’re targeting graduate employers, you may find that many of your personal experiences provide you with rich examples of the competencies they require. But remember that it’s not necessary to disclose any of your history if you do not want to.
TIP: If you have experience with organisations that would disclose your identity through being associated with them, it is okay to alter their names. Examples of this might include:
- Changing participation in an LGBTQI+ Society to participation in a student society
- Removing the gender from a school name if it no longer matches with your expression – e.g. changing St Mary’s School for Girls to St Mary’s School
Consider your online presence
It’s not uncommon for employers to look you up on LinkedIn, Facebook, and other social media platforms, as well as any other websites you might appear on.
So if you haven’t already, review your accounts and bios to ensure consistency both in how your name is displayed and in how you present yourself. This step is particularly important if, for any number of reasons, you don’t want to be out during your job search.
TIP: Review the privacy settings on all your social media accounts—including old, unused ones—to control what content is visible to potential employers. Pop your name into a search engine (or several search engines) and see what comes up. (Adapted from Target Jobs)